My daughter does not touch the head, what to do( see)?

Daughter( 2 years old) even brush normally without shouting I can not, about the gum and hair clips do not say anything, and if I could fasten, that while they are not from the head lift will not rest will hysteria.How to teach?hair is long climb and catch bang in the eye does not, is not an option to cut, hairdressers refuse, as in the barber shop begins hysterics worse.Before even I washed properly, and now it does not wash.Maybe this is a crisis?