As tactfully refuse in-law?

As tactfully refuse in-law when she offers a variety of old things that had been saving for years as a dowry to his son, but that our family do not need?I do not want to hurt the old man, but also to take these things is not an option, becausewhen she comes immediately notice that it does not use things.

The cottage fence pond of small children ?

The fenced pond, and to get a quick and budget .And that little children 2 years to stop on the way .